What’s Holding You Back from Earning More?
Your birth date reveals the root cause of why money slips through your hands - and how numerology plays a role in this.
You’ve probably heard it before: money is linked to your mindset, your family, your father, feminine energy, self-worth, and your permission to receive. Yet, these explanations can start to feel worn out and fail to truly resonate. You may have already tried:
- raising your prices;
- working less;
- working more;
- delegating tasks;
- listening to yourself.
Still, deep inside, a feeling of confusion, fear, emptiness, or being stuck remains. It’s as if an invisible barrier is blocking your way, one you just can’t seem to cross. Maybe you already know too much, or perhaps you need to look at the situation from a different perspective.
Your birth date isn’t just a set of numbers. It’s a code, a clue, an identification number you’ve carried since the day you were born. But it’s more than just your soul or destiny number, which many are familiar with. To understand why you might be holding yourself back, you need a broader view:
- The birth day number reveals your talents and core energies (your underlying programs).
- The birth year number reflects your life experiences and areas of growth (a guiding vector for your actions).
- The birth month number connects you to your heritage - how you manage your resources.
And there’s much more. All these factors influence you. All of it is about You. Today, let’s focus on the birth day number.
Money doesn’t come to where you do things “right.” It comes to where you are whole and aligned.
Here lies a harsh truth you can’t avoid: you can be intelligent, talented, and well-educated, but if you are living out of sync with your own energies - like swimming against the current - money will pass you by or only arrive through pain, stress, and burnout.
How can you tell where you’re undervaluing yourself? Don’t look at prices but at your actions. Your birth date brings these answers - no magic or spells, but with great precision.
Money is a mirror, not just of your values, but of your inner state.
Everything related to money isn’t a simple formula of “do this and get that.” It’s the energy you wake up with, the decisions you make, how you engage with clients, say no, set prices, ask for help, or close projects.
🔹 When you work “out of duty” - your energy drains away.
🔹 When you act “out of fear” - money might come, but through struggle.
🔹 When you go “against yourself” - exhaustion and self-sabotage arise.
Are you ready to face the truth?
What does numerology do here?
It’s not about the magic of numbers, but an ancient, time-tested system. Numerology doesn’t just provide answers; it’s a tool helping you ask deeper questions:
🌀 Why are you afraid to grow, even when the desire inside you burns bright?
🌀 Why does money arrive only through constant struggle?
🌀 Why do you still live in “cope mode” rather than “acceptance”?
Often, it’s not about not being good enough, unskilled, or insecure. More often, you are out of harmony with your own energies and trying to imitate someone else’s success story instead of creating your own. This is what numerology reveals - your inner fire, your true goals, your nature.
🗝️ Your money sabotage by birth day number.
Each of us has an inner resistance point - the “brake” that kicks in as soon as money starts coming. It’s not always obvious; sometimes it wears the mask of good intentions - a desire to be independent, to help others, or to “be good.” But this sabotage often blocks your financial growth.
To look deeper, start with one of your basic numbers - your birth day number. This isn’t complex numerology, just a small but important piece revealing one of your key money blocks.
If you were born on the 1st to 9th, take the number as is. If between 10 and 31, add the digits and reduce to a single digit (e.g. 26 → 2+6=8).
Below is a description of the hidden money sabotage tied to your number. Read carefully - it might be the very thing standing in your way to financial growth.
🔹 Number 1
Sabotage: fear of losing independence.
You often do everything yourself because “it’s faster,” but you drain your own energy. Delegating is hard because you don’t fully trust others inside.
Sabotage phrase: “If you want something done right, do it yourself.”
How it blocks money:
- You hit a resource ceiling because you don’t scale.
- You shy away from taking more because you know you’ll have to carry the load again.
Shift to resource:
Trust others, build your personal brand, value your drive - but don’t be alone in the field.
🔹 Number 2
Sabotage: fear of being inconvenient, asking for help.
You often adjust to others because you want to feel needed. You fear rejection and being "too much." You settle for less just to be chosen. Feeling safe, comfortable, and avoiding conflict is more important, even at your own expense.
Sabotage phrase:
“It’s okay, I’ll manage somehow. The main thing is that everything stays fine.”
How it blocks money:
- You undervalue your price to avoid scaring people off.
- You keep "difficult" clients because you’re afraid to say no.
- You don’t voice your desires and stay in the background.
Shift to resource:
You don’t have to be convenient to be loved. When you set boundaries, the world starts relying on them. Your softness becomes strength when it’s no longer just a shield.
🔹 Number 3
Sabotage: fear of losing recognition through success.
You know how to inspire and burn bright - but you burn out quickly. You catch fire with new ideas easily, but lose steam when it comes to structure. You might start ten projects at once because diving deep into one scares you. It’s like you’re always searching for a place to fit instead of stopping and recognizing: You are already enough.
Sabotage phrase:
“I just haven’t figured out what I really want yet.”
How it blocks money:
- Income is unstable, just like your focus.
- People don’t take you seriously because you don’t believe in yourself.
- Everything turns into creative chaos instead of a clear flow.
Shift to resource:
Your energy shines in lightness, but not in distraction.
🔹 Number 4
Sabotage: fear of losing control and stability.
You cling to stability even when it suffocates you. You love clear plans, understandable schemes, and safety. For you, money is something to be “earned,” “deserved,” or “justified.” It’s tough to let go of control, even if it’s already burning you out.
Sabotage phrase:
“First, you have to calculate everything, then act.”
How it blocks money:
- You’re scared to take risks, even when you feel potential.
- You waste time doubting and lose opportunities.
- You stay trapped in systems that no longer work.
Shift to resource:
Order is your foundation, not your prison. Allow yourself more breathing room. Money comes not only by plan but also through trust.
🔹 Number 5
Sabotage: fear of losing freedom and ease of life.
You fear being trapped or limited by someone or something. When things get “too serious,” you want to drop everything. You may sabotage success because it demands structure. You’re used to surviving, moving fast, and hustling - but not accepting.
Sabotage phrase:
“I need more freedom. I’m not made for restrictions.”
How it blocks money:
- You don’t fully monetize what already works.
- You start over too often and don’t harvest rewards.
- Money comes but slips away due to lack of stability.
Shift to resource:
Freedom isn’t about always running away, but about choosing. When you stop chasing, you become the flow. And money follows you.
🔹 Number 6
Sabotage: fear of taking more when others are in need.
You put others above yourself. You take responsibility for everyone but yourself. You work without rest because “someone has to.” You want to be needed, right, and caring, forgetting you’re human too.
Sabotage phrase:
“I can’t relax until everyone else is okay.”
How it blocks money:
- You agree to more than you can give.
- You don’t set boundaries and lose your energy.
- You substitute value with service.
Shift to resource:
Your strength is in warmth, not self-sacrifice. When you give from fullness, you’re chosen not for “care,” but for who you truly are.
🔹 Number 7
Sabotage: fear of making mistakes and being unprepared.
You’re always searching for the “true path.” You can endlessly study, introspect, and seek answers. Often, you’re closed off and don’t trust the process. You fear making mistakes and delay action.
Sabotage phrase:
“I’m not ready yet. I need to understand, feel, sort it out better.”
How it blocks money:
- Everything stays in your mind without execution.
- You doubt your products even when they’re strong.
- You may seem distant, losing trust.
Shift to resource:
Your depth is priceless - but don’t hide in it. Money comes when you share, not when you wait for the perfect moment.
🔹 Number 8
Sabotage: fear of losing control and power.
You want to keep everything under control. Strong, strategic, results-oriented. But inside, you fear falling, losing, and appearing weak. So, you stay “on guard,” even when no one demands it.
Sabotage phrase:
“You can’t relax. Money loves discipline.”
How it blocks money:
- Money comes, but through a clenched fist.
- You lose the ease that creates abundance.
- You get used to struggle and stop believing there’s another way.
Shift to resource:
True power lies not in control, but in support. Allow yourself flexibility. Then money will come not only through “right” but through “easy.”
🔹 Number 9
Sabotage: fear of seeming selfish by wanting more for yourself.
You live for meaning and often forget about yourself. You can see depth, transform, and inspire. But money comes with difficulty because you internally reject it, as if afraid to get “tainted” by material things.
Sabotage phrase:
“It’s more important to do the work. Money isn’t the main thing.”
How it blocks money:
- You undervalue yourself compared to others.
- You can’t ask for fair pay for your transformation.
- You carry a “mission” but without support.
Shift to resource:
Money isn’t betrayal of meaning. It’s its continuation. When you start valuing what you give, the world responds in kind.
If you want to earn more, you don’t need to do more. You need to be yourself - but aligned with your number’s positive energy. Then money comes as a response, not a struggle.
Ask yourself honestly:
✅ Do I earn out of need or abundance?
✅ What holds me back from raising prices, taking more, or stopping carrying everything alone?
✅ Do my prices reflect my value or my fear of not selling?
Your energy isn’t about becoming someone else, but about stopping the sabotage of your own power.
The key:
Your power lies in acceptance. Restore your inner foundation - and money will come as a natural gratitude from the world, not as a trophy.
🧭 What’s next?
The most important step is to realize that real movement starts not with external techniques or strategies, but with inner understanding of your nature and the patterns where you might be stuck.
To truly unlock your money potential, you need to:
- see exactly which pattern traps you;
- understand which inner energies are in conflict;
- allow yourself to be authentic - not just “good” or “successful,” but uniquely you.
Only you know how much you’ve endured.
🔁 How many times have you started a new project exhausted and stretched thin?
🔁 How often have you looked at numbers, plans, and reports, telling yourself, “Just a little more, I can handle it”?
🔁 How many times have you set a price with hesitation?
Your fears are not about work, but about being yourself and not losing money or clients. Money doesn’t arrive where you are “smart, “right,” and convenient. Money arrives where you are alive, whole, and real - even if it’s scary and hard.
If you’re ready to look that deep, you’ll see your energy was never blocking you - it was always calling. You just walked past it.
We often look for financial solutions outside. But true breakthroughs and transformation begin when you stop asking “how to do it” and start asking “Is this really mine?”
You can try different strategies.
You can change prices, packaging, and positioning.
But if you act out of fear, duty, or obligation - you’re not in your money energy.
You’re not who you really are.
Returning to yourself, to your unique rhythm and impulse, money comes differently - not because you sell more, but because you don’t lose yourself.
Look at your number - it won’t reveal all secrets, but it will definitely show where to start, what to let go of, and where to stop being afraid to be yourself.
If you want, I can help you read your money code more deeply and find support not in other people's “recipes,” but in what truly works for you.
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